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Thursday, May 6, 2010

Out of Place Controversy.

     I need to get off topic here (I know this is a mommy blog) but I, as well as many other people, experienced an event that has been on my mind. Now, please (and I mean please) do NOT consider my a conspiracy theorist. I do not consider myself one. All I am trying to do here, is get off of my chest, some of the things that I find slightly worrying about the Times Square bomb.
     While I do not think that our government would set out to hurt the innocent people of this country, I do believe that one or two sneaky things have happened under the government's watchful eye. I am not setting out to invalidate the severity of the current events, or the war against terrorism in which many of our loved ones fight in, have fought in, or have even died for. What I am targeting (if you so choose to think that is my intent) is specifically the bomb in Times Square, NYC. I am elaborating on a suggestion made to me by a friend that the bomb left in Times Square could have been a hoax (for lack of better words) in order to raise and maintain awareness of terrorism, and to re-validate the country's slipping support of the war in which we are fighting.
     My personal opinion, as well as the opinion of some other intelligent, level-headed people I know, is it is completely feasible that the bomb left in Times Square was not the work of Faisal Shahzad. Before you dismiss this post as anti-American rhetoric, I would appreciate if you can read what I write here with the understanding that I am basing my OPINIONS on published (from well known sources) documents, and can, and will, post links referencing all of the facts stated below.
     Now, I cannot say with certainty that I believe this was the work of our own government; what I can say is that I cannot believe with certainty that it was not. One of the first things that I noted as being "fishy" is the fact that the bomb in the Pathfinder did not go off. (This is an undisputed fact, and I do not feel this needs to be cited. If you would like proof of this, by all means, you should perhaps dismiss the rest of this post.) The problem that I have with that (not that it is a problem, thank goodness no one got hurt) is that according to CNN,
"After receiving explosives training at a camp in Pakistan's region, returned to the United States via a one-way plane ticket February 3, the court documents say, citing Customs and Border Protection records" CNN Web Article, paragraph 12.
Now, OK, I have to assume that a terrorist with explosives training would have the ability to rig a car bomb that would go off. For me to think that a Pathfinder full of explosives, packed by the trained hands of Shahzad would end up being a dud and not go off, is a reach. Again, I am grateful no one got hurt.
     Another part of this even that strikes me as a little askew, is that within 54 hours the  accused terrorist was not only apprehended, but our government, as well as the media, knew everything about his history. "and city detectives helped the FBI wrap arrest Shahzad within 54 hours." NY Post: Paragraph 4 (keep this open if you wish, I will be referring to this article again.) While this is not completely impossible, I do think that it is a very difficult task to accomplish. Does this prove anything? Not particularly, but again, it is just another thing that bothered me a little bit.
     The last thing that I will mention here, (there are a few other, much smaller aspects and details I could go into) and perhaps the biggest part of this event that stands out in my mind, is a Headline from The New York Post. NYPD Spared Cuts After Terrorist Bust. If you choose not to read the article, which is fine with me, I will outline some of the biggest problems I have with this article. Prior to the bomb, over 900 police officers were due to be laid off. An officer who can only be described as "jubilant" by the Post was quoted saying that the failed car-bomb "is a perfect excuse" (that can be found in the opening paragraph of said article). Now, I really do not feel the need to go on and on about the remainder of the article, nor do I wish to dissect this article and point out all of the things that do not sit right with me. I will plainly state that given Mayor Bloomberg's budget adjustments, I cannot help but feel that the dud car bomb as planted to reinforce the need for police officers, and the ongoing War of Terror, which is losing support from Americans.
Bloomberg's 2011 executive budget, being unveiled today, "won't include a reduction in the number of police officers out on our streets keeping New York City safe," said spokesman Stu Loeser." (paragraph 2 of the same article.)
     In closing, I would appreciate a little open-mindedness when processing this post. Please, feel free (in fact, I encourage it) to respond to this, regardless of your stance on my opinion. Just keep in mind, this is my opinion only, that is all I have the right to discuss, I am in no way trying to sway any one's judgement and beliefs in the government, I am not trying to start of conspiracy theory, and I am my NO means Anti-American.
     On that note, I promise I will post some mommy stuff another day, this is a mommy blog after all. I am hoping that everyone is having a good time momming and I hope you are gearing up for Mother's Day!

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Chrisis Finally Averted!

     Just a quick follow-up for my last post. The terrified screams seem as if they have been passified by none other thannnnnn (drumroll, please) her blanket. No, I'm not kidding. Gave her back her blanket (it used to belong to my mom, it's fuzzy with Halloween skulls all over it) and she rubbed it on her face, giggled, and layed on it. Puth er to bed that night, she waqs out by 8:15 as if nothing ever happened. Go figure. Security blanket at 9 months old? Guess so.

Friday, April 30, 2010

Mommy 911! Requesting backup at Crib! Outside resources needed!

     Well today is kind of an emergency day. Not like, 911 emergency, but still. Well it WAS a 911 emergency when Haley decided to dial 911 and hang up (oh, hello officer.... yeah, no emergency here... yes I'm sure). No, this emergency is particularly urgent because, well honestly, not only is it unnerving, but it's a little ittitating after a while (sorry, Hal).
     Well, last night, around 11:30pm or so, I hear Haley moaning in her sleep on the moniter, nothing new here... After a few minutes of that, all of a sudden a SCREAM! And I DO mean scream. It was immediately followed by that "I'm terrified" cry that all mom's know so well. Of course, we ran in there to see what was up; of course, nothing. So After a few intense minutes of calming her down and rocking her to sleep in my arms, we were finally able to go back to what we were doing before (you know, parent time... no not that! Get your mind out of the gutter, there are children present!). Anyway, she woke up an hour or so later, but I gave her the bottle while she was still in the moaning stage, no problem. Around 4:30 in the morning, we wake up to the "terrified" scream and cry over the monitor. Again, we both went in there to make sure nothing was going on (it wasn't). This time though, the only way I could get her to go back to sleep was to leave her bedroom door open with the hallway light shining in. Went back to bed around 5 and she was fine in the morning, playing in her crib for about an hour or so before making a peep.
     As hopeful (or nieve) as I am, I figured this was a one time thing, perhaps a nightmare that she had twice or something of that nature. Put her down for a nap, she fought me more than usual on it, but still went down relitively hassle-free. Tonight though, is a different story. Bedtime is at 8pm for her, everynight. She knows that, and will usually get cranky if she stays up much later than that. We get her all changed (on the changing table that she freaks out on... every time, for a week or so), and she was ok afterwards. As soon as she hit her mattress, SCREAMING. Non-stop, red in the face, sweating, the whole nine yards, again sounding terrified. We took her out, brought her into the living room for a while, and tried again (and again). Well finally, around 10:30 or so, I had had it. I was so ready to put my fist through the wall. Any wall would have been fine (hey, I'm a mom, not a saint!). I tried to put her in her little bouncer (the only that looks like a clamshell... yes, you know what I'm talking about), and she screamed the same way as soon as I put her there too. (F!)
     Finally, I decided I no longer cared about anything but getting this kid to sleep. So we took her and put her in our bed and I layed down with her. Mike decided to get her old convertible co-sleeper and set up the playpen part of it so that she can sleep in our room so she doesn't have to be alone until whatever is going on passes. Yeah, no that didn't work either. Same screaming when we put her there too! The only solution was to put her in our bed and hang out with her until she fell asleep (and you KNOW I fell asleep too!). I guess when we go to bed that we can try to move her to the co-sleeper since it is right next to the bed and there will be minimal sleeping baby transportation.
     The emergency part of all this, is the face that I have NO idea what is going on with her... None at all! I'm thinking it could be her teeth, and fro mthe pain came the need to be held and comforted. I have no idea. I am really hoping, though, that that is not going to be a long term thing, where she will be sleeping in our bed and putting up a fuss everytime she sees her crib. I don't think that babies her age (she's 9 months old now, holy crap!) have the capacity to be afraid of the dark, since they really have no concept of anything they can't see hurting them. I guess I could be wrong. If anyone has ANY kind of input, any at all, please, please, please pass it along. I don't know how much longer I can see her like this. I am absolutely starting to worry for her. I'm hoping that nothing serious is wrong with her. I just need some help here. Thanks in advance (feel obligated yet? Because that phrase always makes me).
     Until next time, Happy Momming! (happier momming than mine)

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Mommy, Baby, and Friends.

     So, things have been a little sedentary around here lately. Well until last week. Haley was pretty sick so we ended up taking her to the doctors. Turns out she has allergies and got a bronchial infection from them. All I know is that I want to find out who came up with the idea that we should give all medicines to infants via medicine spoons, and have a serious chat with the guy. Further, why did I not think to use the dropper instead of the spoon earlier than I did? Anyway, after a few days of meds (and cursing said guy), she is starting to feel much better.
     Also, Haley is finally crawling! I have been waiting for her to finally get it, and after about a month or so of almost crawling, she finally started crawling! We have been really excited. I have to say, it's pretty cool to watch her learn the art of movment. You don't really ever think of movement as something you have to learn, it's sort of one of those thing we take for granted, most of us, anyway.
     Further, Hal and I have made friends! We started hanging out with a friend of mine who I have known for a long time. I hadn't really talk to her since we were in Junior High, but then all of a sudden, thanks to Facebook, we started talking. Turns out she has a son one month younger than Haley, and is also a stay at home mommy! Who would have thought!? So there areeeee more of us out there... Needless to say, things have been going a lot smoother for me personally having someone around who is in the same boat (or baby tub), so to speak.
     I am definitely encouraging everyone out there, SAHM, or not, to try to link up with some other mommies who have kids the same age. I underestimated the effect of common ground and friendship on stress. Anyway, I am going to go ahead and sell out to "the man" and recommend my favorite Haley toy on here and link to Amazon. Personally, it doesn't matter to me if you buy or not, I'm just sharing with you some of the things that make my life a little easier.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Playing Catch-up.

     Well, what can I say? I haven't written anything since March 21st. I suppose I have been busy, though I'm not quite sure with what. Anyhow...
    
     Haley is starting to crawl (finally!), and I have to confess, watching the learning process is somewhat funny. She is getting all over the house without actually going through the motions of defined crawling. She will go on hands and knees, then hands and feet, then roll around, then sit up.... oh it goes on and on. I was scouring the internet for any helpful websites for crawling and found this to be pretty helpful. There's also a video out there of early stage crawling, but unfotunately I can't find it (sorry, guys!).

     Doing the whole SAHM (that's Stay At Home Mom for anyone acronym(ly?) illiterate) thing has been ok lately. I know I was having some trouble adjusting there for a while. I am finding that once everyone settles into schedules, it's really not so bad. I actually held a Partylite party at my house last night, and even hosted Easter Sunday here this year! As it turns out, having the time to be home and care for your kid as well as your house, itsn't as daunting of a task and I have been making it out to be. Now, I am, by NO means, dismissing the work and stress and effort required of SAHMs, because I know that sometimes it just gets to be too much. All I am trying to say is, finally, after 8 months, I am settling into a routine.

     CONFESSION TIME: A little while ago, I find Haley in her crib after her nap, soaking wet. I really do hate going in there to a pee covered baby, but what can you do? So I change her and get her all dressed in her second cute outfit, pick her up and bring her in the living room to play, and realize by the time I get there, my arm and chest are soaking wet. Well, apparently in my own haste, I forgot to put a diaper on Haley. Yeah, that's right. So that was my fun time, I guess.

     Another thing I noticed: As Haley hit the 8 month mark, she sort of boycotted her sleep schedule, as well as one of her naps during the day. I am wondering if there are any other babies that did this around this age? She is no longer sleeping through the night (yeah, that lasted about 3 weeks) and now she will usually only take one nap a day, some days it's almost non-existant. I have to idea what's going on with this sleep thing, but I do have to say that it is messing with my schedule, and that I am finding it increasingly difficult to get anything done during the day.

     Well, I guess that's about it for now. Mobile baby means not too much time for the computer anymore (or anything else for that matter). Although we DID manage to finally put our mailbox up! Take that township plowers! Until next time folks....

     Happy momming!

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Afterthoughts.

     A few afterthoughts from my previous blog post:
  1. the title most certainky reminded me of my grandfather, who used to lick his finger and make tally marks in the air to cement a point.
  2. The Suzanne Summers Diet (I believe...) works with your glycemic index to help lose weight, and might be a good place to start for any diabetic newbies out there who need help figuring out what to eat.
That's about it. OK, I'm really going now. Haley's little raspberries she's blowing tell me she's getting bored.

Me: 1; Diabetes: 0

    As many of you don't know, I was a gestational diabetic while I was pregnant with Haley. For anyone out there who was as well, you know how terrible it is to crave peanut butter ice cream and NOT eat the entire pint (yeah it's bad). Well, I don't know how things work up here in NJ, but in SC where I lived when I was pregnant, if you are diagnosed with gestational diabetes, you have to go to a few diabetes ed. classes. There, I learned that you have a decent chance of developing type 2 diabetes if you don't lose your baby weight (also depending on your pre-disposition to getting it in the first place), which is an additional reason why I am so bent on losing weight. WELL… looks like I MAY have been a little late.
    I recently took my blood sugar, something I have done intermittently since delivering, and got an abnormally high reading (uh-oh!). Since then, I have been monitoring my blood sugar and it appears to me that I have (hopefully) pre-diabetes (as opposed to full-fledged type 2). Big deal? Well, kind of. Devastated? Eh, sort of. Defeated? Absolutely not! Although I am thoroughly disappointed (helloooo, I LOVE to bake!), I am deciding to take a positive approach.
    Essentially, good eating habits for diabetics means almost no carbs (boooo!). The good side? Well a low carb, high protein diet combined with my new (and effective!) work-out routine means hello wedding weight loss! ALSO, coming to terms with my lifestyle change (not diet) will mean that I will, hopefully, maintain to good weight for the rest of my life. Now, just hope I keep this positive outlook. On the more honest side, it is bad, and I'm hoping that I have only pre-diabetes and that with diet and exercise I can treat it.
    So, how do you know if you are at risk? Well you can click here to look at common risk factors. Also, feel free to browse the website for more information! I am promoting Diabetes awareness, since I am very thankful that I became aware of my possible condition very early. As long as diabetes is caught early and addressed properly from the beginning, the effects will be minimal.
    I will be going to the doctor's tomorrow morning for a general check-up and to have blood tests ordered to confirm my suspicions. Hopefully everything will work out for the best, I think it will. I promise to keep this updated as soon as I find out what's really going on. The hardest part will be keeping to the diet. I am already quickly learning what I should and should not eat based on my readings after meals. Interested? Click here for a chart on glucose levels. (my highest this week: 216, lowest: 98)
    I know that I am not the only person on earth with diabetes.

United States


In 2005, people with diabetes were estimated to account for 7% of the US population, or approximately 20.8 million people.Rates of diabetes are increasing worldwide. At least 171 million people currently have diabetes, and this figure is likely to more than double to 366 million by 2030. The top 10 countries, in numbers of people with diabetes, are currently India, China, the United States, Indonesia, Japan, Pakistan, Russia, Brazil, Italy, and Bangladesh. The greatest percentage increase in rates of diabetes will occur in Africa over the next 20 years. However, at least 80% of people in Africa with diabetes are undiagnosed, and many in their 30s to 60s will die from diabetes there. Of these 20.8 million people, 14.6 million have a diagnosis of diabetes, and diabetes is undiagnosed in another 6.2 million. Approximately 5-10% have type 1 diabetes, 90-95% have type 2 diabetes, and 1-5% have other types. Additionally, an estimated 54 million people have pre-diabetes.
Pre-diabetes, as defined by the American Diabetes Association, is that state in which blood glucose levels are higher than normal but not high enough to be diagnosed as diabetes. It is presumed that most persons with elevated glucose levels approaching the level needed for the diagnosis of diabetes will subsequently progress to diabetes.
     So, I have decided to post a few links for recipie websites/ recipies that I am particularly interested in trying. Hope you enjoy! (anyone out there with some others to offer, please pass them along!)
     Well, until next time everyone! Happy momming!